kira miyuki (sushi) wrote,
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INFJ & ENTP

So, basically since Olin started working at H&M, his work schedule has been from 6am-3pm, which means he goes to bed pretty earlier, leaving me alone to kill time by myself. Tonight I've been trying if I want to work on a story I've been writing (doubtful), read a book, or watch some Netflix. Instead, I've decided to do none of those things!!!!

So a few weeks ago, pretty soon into when I got back from Japan, my academic advisor had me take a Myers-Briggs test, and I found out I am an INFJ! Which is.... scarily accurate. None of this will probably be interesting to any of you unless you also happen to be an INFJ, but here are some of my favorite things I've found out about INFJs:

  • INFJs are concerned for people's feelings, and try to be gentle to avoid hurting anyone. They are very sensitive to conflict, and cannot tolerate it very well. Situations which are charged with conflict may drive the normally peaceful INFJ into a state of agitation or charged anger. They may tend to internalize conflict into their bodies, and experience health problems when under a lot of stress (Ohh, the very lovely heart palpitations I get when I'm extremely stressed...!)

  • INFJ is a perfectionist who doubts that they are living up to their full potential. INFJs are rarely at complete peace with themselves - there's always something else they should be doing to improve themselves and the world around them. They believe in constant growth, and don't often take time to revel in their accomplishments.

  • INFJ have very high expectations of themselves, and frequently of their families. They don't believe in compromising their ideals.

  • They are, in fact, sometimes mistaken for extroverts because they appear so outgoing and are so genuinely interested in people -- a product of the Feeling function they most readily show to the world. On the contrary, INFJs are true introverts, who can only be emotionally intimate and fulfilled with a chosen few from among their long-term friends, family, or obvious "soul mates." (Evverryyybodyyy thinks I'm extroverted but I'm really not because it's so draining, I just put on an incredibly good show..!)

  • INFJs will suddenly withdraw into themselves, sometimes shutting out even their intimates. This apparent paradox is a necessary escape valve for them, providing both time to rebuild their depleted resources and a filter to prevent the emotional overload to which they are so susceptible as inherent "givers."

Since INFJs are the rarest of all the personality types, I thought maybe I'd accidentally got INFJ instead of the more common INFP (apparently, the two are often mislabelled), but upon reading up on INFPs, I'm very certain that I'm not one. Anyway, I got really into reading up about the personality types, so I made Olin take a few online quizzes, and although they aren't actually certified Myers-briggs tests, he got ENTP every single time, and OH MY GOD, it is so Olin. So here's some of my favorite bits about Olin:

  • ENTPs tend to have a perverse sense of humor as well, and enjoy playing devil's advocate. This sometimes confuses, even angers, those who don't understand or accept the concept of argument as a sport.

  • ENTPs' capacity for debate can be a vexing one - while often appreciated when it's called for, it can fall painfully flat when they step on others' toes by say, openly questioning their boss in a meeting, or picking apart everything their significant other says. This is further complicated by ENTPs' unyielding honesty, as this type doesn't mince words and cares little about being seen as sensitive or compassionate.(The number of times Olin will come home to me and then talk about how he got into an argument with a higher-up at work seriously confounds me, I will never be able to understand how he does it or why he enjoys it!!)

  • ENTPs get excited and enthusiastic about their ideas, and are able to spread their enthusiasm to others. In this way, they get the support that they need to fulfill their visions. ENTPs are less interested in developing plans of actions or making decisions than they are in generating possibilities and ideas. Following through on the implementation of an idea is usually a chore to the ENTP. For some ENTPs, this results in the habit of never finishing what they start.

Finally, I think the part that I really couldn't believe but was secretly very thrilled about:

  • Although two well-developed individuals of any type can enjoy a healthy relationship, ENTP's natural partner is the INFJ, or the INTJ.

Hahaha! Guess we're just meant to be.
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